workworkwork! woe is me! so i love my partner, but his friends arent so taken with me! i dont get it! my mom would have known how to handle this! the thing is that his friends were uncomfortable around my friends! im sure its much simpler than that! its likely that one of my particularily obnoxious friends said something that his friends judged my whole group on! its not fair and im darn pissed! so his friends are headed to his house tonight for some boy fun and the fact that they insulted me by refusing to come to his house while i was there seems forgotten! im not sure about the proper way to get pissed about all of this! im not the kind of girl to keep quiet for the benefit of others! i choose to stand up for myself and i dont feel like im being given that option here! so what do i say? who do i yell at? where do i assert myself? i fucking refuse to be quiet and pleasant while im insulted and looked down upon by people who never took the chance to know me! i kinda knew this would happen but it still fucking hurts! do i want an apology, or an explanation, or some small gifts? i dunno... i deserve something more, but im not sure what to ask for!